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Hi guys, do you know that a lot of problems we have nowadays are results from the behavior standards of our relatives, and it is possible to free from them with familiar systemic constellation? I got fascinated for this therapy so much, that I have come to share with you.
What is Familiar Systemic Constellation?
It was created by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger, which studies behavior standards of relative’s groups, and how they interfere in the problems that we have nowadays. Sorrow, and bad solved issues can provoke suffer during many future generations. Many times, a behavior standard we adopt has been originated with some ancestor that with not even we meet him.
The Familiar Systemic Constellation, which can be done in a group or individually, rebuild scenes that involve the feelings of the “constellated” into a familiar context, showing the problem origin. This way, understanding how everything has begun, the person becomes aware, forgives, and is healed from this standard.
How the Familiar Systemic Constellation works
Firstly, we raise what problem or theme we want to study. Base on this, the therapist will ask for information about our ancestors, mainly remarkable situations that they lived, relationship problems, early death, traumas, the quantity of siblings, diseases, etc.
After that, the therapist will ask for the “constellated” to choose who will represent the relatives, if be an individual session, these people will be performed by dolls. From there, the professional will list the livings of these members with the constellated, until he/she understands the source of the problems and perceives that has been repeating the same behavior standards, in this way can free himself/herself from this model.
The people who I have met that did Familiar Systemic Constellation has described to me as something magic and rescuer. It is impressive because in just a session it is already possible to solve the problem which took us to therapy.
Is Familiar Systemic Constellation for everybody?
This therapy stirs very profound feelings, for this, it is counter-indicated for those is in intensive depression, with psychopathological situations, people under drug effects, or alcohol.
The most important for this therapy works is that the person needs going of spontaneously will, must want to be there, there is no use to take someone by force to Familiar Constellation. The person must be open-minded to the process. The decision should be from her/him.
If want to know more about this theme, I recommend the blog of “Instituto Koziner”, founded by professor psychiatry Mario Koziner, there you will find much information about this so interesting issue.
Do you have any limiting behavior or belief that you wish to free? Would you participate in a session of Familiar Systemic Constellation? Tell me here in the comments!
Kiss
